The last few weeks she hasn't had my little brother go on when it was time for us to play and talk (once a week we talk while playing games because she decided to move a 9 hour drive away). She takes his computer (which my 2 older siblings bought him) when he isn't playing with either my or my older brother, if you're wondering why he doesn't come on by himself. Anyway, she called me a few minutes ago just to talk, which she just does occasionally. We were on the phone for a few minutes when I remembered that James wasn't able to join James time the past few weeks. I asked if he would be able to join this week, to which she immediately asks if I think she's a good mother. I told her that I don't talk bad about her to him and that she honestly just doesn't come up, which she doesn't. She told me that she thinks that she should, in a good way. I told her that this is me spending time with James, and that my relationship with her doesn't affect my relationship with him. I don't talk bad about her to him and neither to I talk good about her because I don't bring her up. If James brings her up or starts venting about her then I listen because, well, yeah, she puts anyone whose starting to think for themselves through hell. She kept telling me that she should be brought up, only positively ofc, and than asked if I appreciated all that she did for me. She then went onto say that she should be appreciated for carrying me for 9 months, birthing me, then feeding me. I honestly don't agree with that, she decided to have a baby, she knew what comes with having a child. That shouldn't be held against me. Anyway, we ended the conversation with her bringing my 5 year old little sister into it, saying that we can't do James time, and that she's done talking about this. Wtf is wrong with her, I literally just miss my little brother and want to spend time with him.
I apologize for the massive wall of text but I'm so enraged right now, does she even hear herself???
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